Thursday, June 2, 2016

Have you found yourself frustrated?


                A few weeks ago a Facebook post included a video of a pastor sharing his frustration with the congregation not changing or attempting to change and the futility he felt in his position. It is intended to be funny and it is. Unfortunately it is funny because it contains a level of truth. Pastoring or any ministry leader can and does find that they are cat herders. Yes, you read right we are herding cats. We have two cats at our house and we cannot do anything with them. They only respond when they want something hmmmmmm. Watch it below!

                The role of ministry is to lead volunteers to change. It’s almost impossible to lead employees through change even with a paycheck but try that with volunteers? The frustration is real as many ministry leaders prepare and labor to do their best only to have folks listen half-heartedly or not at all and then be critical that it was too long, too short, not the right thing etc…you know. It’s frustrating. I have often said ministry will make you an atheist. It’s true to a point.

                The point being those in ministry often only see the bad, problems and difficulties. We do not often see the changes that the Gospel is making in an individual or at least don’t see them often enough. The hardest part is it is the most difficult to see the change in ourselves. The change we need most is a slow process. It is like trying to make a ½ inch board into a ¼ inch board with sandpaper. Yes, it can be done. Yes, it will take a very long, long time. Time is what God has because he lives outside of it. He is willing to smooth us out over a lifetime if needed. He’s got all of eternity if he chooses. We are in such a hurry that’s the frustration.

                Last night I was up a number of times just napping in between being uncomfortable both inside and out. I could tell you it was due to eating too late or the wrong thing or some other perfectly reasonable excuse but that would be a lie. The truth is I was thinking about several things I am juggling at this point in life and being frustrated that I cannot resolve any of them at this time. I wonder who the cat is and who is the herder now? As I tried to get comfortable I would think about this and wonder how to solve that and so-on-and-so-on-and-so… Sound familiar? Raise your hand and say, “Hi my name is__________ I’m frustrated.” Why?

                The age old question. The one raised by Job and never answered by God is why? The same one we raise and never have answered. In my case why was answered “little faith.” My frustration seemed to be about the lack of completion. I was/am (a little) frustrated that I can’t seem to get things done. The harder I try, the more obstacles surface that have to be cleared and I am tired of clearing obstacles. How about you. Jesus has an answer,

“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” Matthew 11:28-30 The Message                

You saw the “I” and the “me” pronouns and a lack of Jesus in that right? When I prayed this morning about these things I went to sleep. Funny how that works!

In HIS service and yours,                                                       
BroG      

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